Life?

I don't believe you can ever unlove someone. I don't believe you can ever stop loving someone. No matter how much you hate that person or dislike them, you have and will always love them little or lots. I believe that each of us has plenty of soul mates, our other half is more than 1.  I believe that even when our chapter with them ends we will still continue to love them. No matter how much we think we've forgotten them or how they have no value to us, deep down we know we still love each and every one of them. Even when we say we are fed up with love.  And no I don't love that person anymore.  We know we still do, little or lots.  The feeling of love just isn't easily dissipated.  Here's my break-up story. Of all of the break-ups, of all of the ex-boyfriends. Of all of the reasons why each one of us broke up. I still love them.  No, I don't want to get back to them. No, it doesn't mean I want to be together again. But yes, I still love every one of the...

The phrase "no one is perfect" is overrated.  But I still find it's the purest and kindest phrase to use. Each of us has our own faults. Each of us has our own life. Each of us has our own dark side of the moon. And each of us has our own ideal star.  And every planet is different. The point is do we understand our faults? Do we embrace our faults?  Do we accept that weird-looking flower in our garden that we don't know how it got there? I am afraid of people seeing my faults. I don't want people to know I'm weak.  I don't want people to see me as a victim. I am afraid of not being strong enough.  I tend to hide my imperfections and only showcase my strong suits. I understand it is a normal human emotion to hide your weak point and only portrait your strong point. But I feel like sometimes I try way too hard to impress a person, seeking their validation and it's exhausting also hurting my mental well-being. I try to keep myself in check, to stand sane ...