Time; What if he's not the one?

Now I have no problem with believing whether he's the one or not.
But I know other people out there who are currently in a relationship but still asking themselves is he/she the one for me? Am I going to love him/her forever? will he/she love me forever?

And the uncertainty kills us slowly but surely.
Some people found validation on the question so they got grounded.
But for some people who never got the validation they needed, they end up hurting themselves or the other person because they think "we are not the one for each other, sooner or later we are going to broke up anyway"

Bro it's toxic

Can you imagine being in a relationship where you constantly thinking whether this relationship will last as long as you hope too but you still doubt yourself because of some inner issues or he is just a total jack ass.

Now, this is the two-part to "is he the one?"

One.
It might just be your anxiety talking, thinking you are not enough and he is going to get bored and leave you soon because you are not interesting. He is going to find someone new better than you in the next few months because you are not that entertaining and therefore he will soon walk away. You got nothing to give to him no more.

Two.
He is a jack ass who doesn't understand you and he just wants to not be lonely that's why he's in a relationship with you, basically just pasting time or he is an idiot who can't commit because he can't stand still and pay attention to one thing. He just likes to hop from one relationship to another for his pure satisfaction. He doesn't put effort into the relationship and later both of you just got tired and break up.

So to answer your question "is he the one?"
I do not know.
You know.

You know yourself, who you are and why you decided to start this relationship.

I know we can get confused while we are on this relationship journey.
So many things could happen and you don't really know how to handle them.
And all you want is just to be happy.

But it's so hard to stay happy when you are doubting yourself or him.

"All good thing must come to an end"

I can't tell you whether your relationship will last long or not but just live!
Go for what feels right, if he makes you happy and you are enjoying his company goes for it!
And stop putting pressure on yourself.
Nothing is perfect.
You are not perfect, your partner is not perfect.

I don't know if he is the one but don't let that stop for from being happy even if it's just 3 months.
Walk into that relationship head-on! be strong and enjoy yourself.

He doesn't have to be "the one" to make you happy.

And if you two end up leaving each other, that's life.

We are all imperfect.

From your friend on the internet,
Please love yourself.